Monday, August 20, 2012

South Africa police fire on striking miners, several dead

Hetepu,

There is never any discussion about the fact that europe, regardless of the country has no mines of any type to profit from. Europe has no platimun, oil, diamonds, gold, silver, basalt or any other natural metal that is sold on the european stock market but europe is wealthy from the sale of the commodities. Africa is home to all of the commodities that are sold on the european market but Africans starve and fight among themselves.

Being that I have been over to Africa (Ghana) and seen how they would love to have people who look like them invest in their homeland, unfortunately because of our ignorance we don't or refuse to do so. I have made it a concerted effort to try and educate black people on Africa and the opportunities abroad but many turn a blind eye refusing at times to even want to learn more.

If you are interested in more info on how to invest and learn more about how things really are in Africa, don't hesitate to contact me. If you will not invest in your own country …TRUST ME… someone else will leaving you to do nothing but complain and be stained.

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Saturday, August 18, 2012

You need to be independent - JoAnna Colasito

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You need to be independent - JoAnna Colasito
I'm a bit spoiled....
I'm trained by the best....
I'm truly value the gifts that I've been given access to...
Ashee, Amen.

I've found that a scheduled incremental investment in training / education / understanding can aid the movement from "Ashy to Classy" (Obvious Biggie Smalls reference - He's the illest'). So I ensure that I get some form of weekly spiritual educational experience such as church, Bible study class, World Religion studies, or meditation. I do the same musically, with 'Conscious Enlightenment', and in the area of self-motivation. I also ensure that I attend a seminar, workshop, webinar, and the like to improve my lines of business. Recently I attended a seminar provided by my home World Financial Group office focused upon taking "Charge of your business." I entered the room ready to rock, I left the room charged !

Our presenter was JoAnna Colasito. She has built one of the most impressive businesses I've ever been exposed to. Her message was deceptively simple. "You can never become a leader if you keep letting people take care of you."............................... I was done. I was floored. In one sentence she laid out the main difficulty I have struggled with in my profession in the Human Services field. As a school counselor I struggled to get the students to recognize their power and responsibility in obtaining their education. I also struggled with attempting to guide educational professionals to recognize their power and responsibility in managing their classes and emotions as they guide our students. I have certainly struggled with parents who wanted the schools to 'fix' their children or wanted the schools to accept the nonsense from their children that they permitted. In all these cases guiding others into greater responsibility was the key. Folk had to take charge of business. I instantly connected this statement to the problems of the inner city as well as the problems in dependence on government that has stifled people of African and Indian descent in America. I was going deep until minutes later JoAnna simply stated "You need to be independent before you achieve independence."

FLOORED AGAIN ! That statement channeled Dr. John Henrik Clarke, The Honorable Elijah Muhammad, Marcus Garvey, Madam C. J Walker, Rush Limbaugh, and possibly even Sean Hannity in one fell swoop. After a while I was able to leave the weight of her insight scribbled on my handy-dandy notebook alone and follow the remaining guidance in her presentation. I walked out of the session with three pages of 'copious notes'. The next day I reviewed my notes over a brisk coffee and allowed the message to imbue itself into my life. I later met with a client and shared with her "You have to claim your independence from difficulty. You need to stop spending money on entertainment and fund your emergency fund. Starbucks, McDonalds, and the club will never save you when Murphy's law hits you. You got in this mess when you didn't know better. Now that you know better, do better. It's time to graduate into better things."

I want all of us to move towards independence. My senior partner Michael French's blog ( http://mwfrenchfinancial.wordpress.com/) states "Many people say that their dream is unreachable because it cost too much.  What a sad excuse to give up on your dreams.  When you look at a little kid that wants a toy, they do not stop until they have it or are punished, by their parents, for throwing a temper-tantrum.  They are willing, at that time, to give their life for their dream toy." We can begin that movement to independence once we develop the child-like tenacity that Mike spoke of. The path to your dreams begins with a step towards independence.

If you don't have an emergency fund, make that step towards independence. Independently suspend your investment into others financial success. All of those places in the mall and restaurants and clubs will be waiting for you once you return to them with a fully funded emergency fund. Take a temporary fast from spending money on entertainment, food, and things that will not support you if you find yourself in need of money. I often tell my clients "Once you have an emergency fund you (will) stop having emergencies. You'll start have some situations, but your emergency fund will pay for those situations." I recently shared with a client who just graduated from High School "Think back...... The only people who were bullied were the punks who wouldn't or couldn't stick up for themselves. They all needed someone to stop the bullies for them. That's how life is. Once you have a funded emergency fund you'll find that life can't easily punk you." She laughed and planned to open an emergency fund that day following the plan I provided for her. She didn't want to follow the lead of her mother who lived paycheck to paycheck and was always in a bind when something happened. This former student didn't like it when I said "It's your mother's fault, she's not taking charge of her life and preparing for problems. She's a slave to emergencies and doesn't act like she wants to be free." At the end of our session she was determined to be the leader her parents, family, school teachers, church members, and community haven't been. She wanted independence. I gave the a map. I look forward to watching her move towards independence. Question....... What's up with you ?

I'd love to hear what you think. Holla' at cha' scholar (leave a comment). I always give complimentary sessions to recent graduates. If you or anyone you know can benefit from financial guidance, contact me !

As Michael French says "If you do not have a personal financial advisor, get one. PERIOD! I will refer you to a Financial Advisor in your area, or I will help you personally. Do not ever give up on your dream. Fight until you realize it or they bury you in the ground."  - Asante Sana JoAnna, Asante Sana Michael !
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Let's be improved ! Seko Varner is from Positive Vibes Financial, a World Financial Group team of financial services agents. This team began in 2010 and is coached by WFG's Team Unstoppable. Seko also has ownership in and works with Positive Vibes DJs and the event marketing service Happily Ever After.Be. Seko has a background in counseling and special education. He was employed for 14 years with Portsmouth City Public Schools (Virginia) as a counselor and as a teacher. Seko has also worked as an Intensive In-Home Counselor for over 10 years. In addition to his business ventures Seko is active with numerous Youth Mentorship programs and has a background in radio and television media. Visit www.HappilyEverAfter.Be for more details.

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Monday, August 6, 2012

Harli Jordean - The Youngest CEO in the World

Meet The Youngest CEO in the World.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/18/harli-jordean-8-year-old-entrepreneur-builds-his-fortune-selling-marbles_n_1101604.html
Harli Jordean, sets world records academy.




Sleeping with marbles under your pillow sounds like an average 8-year-old thing to do. Selling marbles for 500 bucks a pop? Not so much.
Harli Jordean isn't your average 8-year-old apparently. The London-based entrepreneur has turned his love for the game of marbles into a bonafide business, selling the colored glass orbs on his website, marbleking.co.uk, and fetching as much as 500 pounds per item (such as this limited edition Duke of York table). Harli's business is said to be bringing in thousands of pounds per year, with orders rolling in from as far as the U.S.

Before earning the title of the world's youngest CEO, Harli's parents had long been referring to him by another name -- The Marble King.

"Harli has been obsessed with marbles ever since he was six," his mother, Tina, told the Daily Mail. "He used to sleep with them under his pillow. The last thing he talks about before going to bed is marbles and they are the first things he mentions in the morning...His obsession became so big we started calling him the Marble King," she says.

Harli's marble mania led him to the web, where he found only a limited selection of his beloved toy, sparking the idea to start a site of his own.

Now, with his mother and brother serving as "behind the scenes co-partners," as his site reads, Harli's on his way toward dominating the marble market, eventually becoming co-owner and even creating a branded collection of "Marble King" marbles...once he's old enough.

The World's Youngest CEO has been running the successful website – marbleking.co.uk – for two years and, when he's not playing with his friends, the tiny tyco
on spends all his spare time buying stock, handling orders and liaising with suppliers.

The mini mogul spends his spare time buying stock, processing orders and liasing with suppliers for his website www.marbleking.co.uk.

The business is now turning over thousands of pounds and demand for products is so high that Harli has had to recruit help from his mum and two older brothers.

Harli, from Stoke Newington, London, said: "I like having my own company. I like being the boss."

The tiny tycoon found his flair for trading when he swapped marbles with his friends at school, reportd The Daily Mirror.

But when some older schoolkids took all his stock, Harli turned to his mum, Tina, to help him buy some more from the internet.

After struggling to find what he wanted online, Harli begged her to start his own website and within months, orders were flooding in from around the world.

A simple tub of marbles at Marble King goes for 7.99 pounds (S$16.40), while a limited edition Duke of York solitaire tables can set you back 599 pounds.

In an interview with The Sun, his mum, Tina said: "Harli has been obsessed with marbles ever since he was six.

"His obsession became so big we started calling him the Marble King - so when he wanted to set up a website it was the natural name for it.

"I never thought it would become so popular - we are struggling to cope with the number of orders at times. "I helped him set up the site, but he's now trading with the world instead of just the playground all on his own, he has a hand in everything.

"As a boss he is very amenable and has his own ideas of how to do things."

The ambitious little boy now dreams of expanding his business, and has even created his own brand of marbles, which are made in China and sold on his website.
 

Freedom Rider: Michael Eric Dyson and Barack Obama

Freedom Rider: Michael Eric Dyson and Barack Obama

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by BAR editor and senior columnist Margaret Kimberley
The presidential election cycle is underway, which means that Michael Eric Dyson is pledging his undying love for Barack Obama. Apparently, the president's handlers have favored Dyson with "access" – a quality that is worth far more to some folks than truth and self-respect. "What it all comes down to in Dyson's world, is rubbing elbows with the president and bragging about it."
 
Freedom Rider: Michael Eric Dyson and Barack Obama
by BAR editor and senior columnist Margaret Kimberley
"Why does the only response to Obama have to be slavish devotion and a political stand down?"
Not only is there no longer a black press which represents the interests of black people, but the presence of black people in corporate media is also of dubious value. Take the case of "public intellectual" Michael Erick Dyson. Dyson has recently been a substitute host on MSNBC's Ed Schultz Show, and he has displayed his unique gifts for spouting nonsense and/or boldly displaying opportunism when speaking on the subject of Barack Obama.
Dyson can't seem to make up his mind about Obama. In January 2008 Dyson debated Black Agenda Report Executive Editor Glen Ford on the subject of black support for Obama on Democracy Now. Dyson made it clear that he was a wholehearted Obama supporter who advocated suspending any and all criticism or questioning of the candidate in order to reach the holy grail of seeing him elected president.
That debate took place shortly after the Iowa caucus victory proved that Obama could get votes from white people. At that time Dyson proudly proclaimed his unwavering support of Obama, gave him a pass on speaking up for black people, and directly stated the phony mantra of the Obama sycophant in 2008, that they would "hold his feet to the fire" after he won.
The Dyson/Obama love fest didn't last for very long, however. Just a few months after Obama's 2009 inauguration, Dyson was interviewed by Davey D and had rather scathing words of criticism for the man whom just a year earlier he said should be treated as if infallible.
"He is willing to sacrifice the interests of African Americans in deference to a conception of universalism because it won't offend white people."
"We are so grateful for having a black person in the office we don't demand anything of him."
"I expect the president of the United States to address issues of race."
"He's fallen short and we must hold him accountable."
These words, while truthful, didn't last long either. Now Dyson is not only an Obama lover again, but appears to be in part because he now has up close and personal access to POTUS. Dyson can now preface his statements with words like this, "A couple of years ago when he and I were in the Oval Office talking…"
On the July 25th broadcast of the Ed Show, one of Dyson's guests rather obliquely mentioned that there is some criticism of Obama because he delivers on issues of importance to the gay and latino communities while doing nothing of the sort for black Americans.
"What is wrong with questioning or criticizing Obama?"
According to Dyson, this mild observation unleashed the wrath of Obama worshippers in social media, and on the July 26th show Dyson let everyone know that he is still an Obama guy and the president is a Dyson guy too. "I ain`t one of them [haters]. How do I know? He [Obama] told me so at the Olympic warm up game the other day in D.C. when he hugged me and thanked me for my love and support. When you get at that level, holler back at me." Yes, that is what it all comes down to in Dyson's world, rubbing elbows with the president and bragging about it.
He went further. "Make no mistake, I`m riding hard on the Obama bandwagon. I`ve been on that journey a lot longer than the Black Willy come latelies who voted overwhelmingly against Obama when he ran for Congress and who initially spurned him when he asked for their votes for the presidency because they were beholden to Hillary and Bill Clinton."
Dyson is an academic, a writer and a minister, but as guest host on The Ed Show, he should act as a journalist. The response to his critics should have been that as such, he has a duty to present a wide variety of viewpoints, even as they relate to dear leader Obama.
Dyson had a unique opportunity to ask questions which are still fraught in the black community. What is wrong with questioning or criticizing Obama? Why does the only response to Obama have to be slavish devotion and a political stand down?
Of course, it may be unfair to expect professional ethics from Dyson when the rest of the journalistic profession is no better. There are huge incentives to being a court scribe instead of a journalist. Scribes get plum assignments, access to movers and shakers, prestigious prizes, and big paychecks because they represent the interests of the people they cover when they should be asking them hard questions.
Dyson's routine makes it easy to make fun of him. His gift of gab borders on buffoonery, but it has made him a hot commodity. He could put his glibness to good use and spark a conversation about Obama, but that is not to be. Now we get "black Willy come latelies" and man crush hugs.
The hard truth is that Black Agenda Report and its allies are unique in their determination to continue advocating for self-determination and movement based leftist politics, and not just idol worship of the black face in the high place. Dyson is not alone in changing his mind about Obama depending upon whether or not he has access to the Oval Office. There are not many principled people in the world of political commentary, but anyone reading these words doesn't have to be concerned about that. No one at Black Agenda Report is in danger of mincing words about Obama, or the rest of American political leadership. We also aren't in danger of getting any hugs.
Margaret Kimberley's Freedom Rider column appears weekly in BAR, and is widely reprinted elsewhere. She maintains a frequently updated blog as well as at http://freedomrider.blogspot.com. Ms. Kimberley lives in New York City, and can be reached via e-Mail at Margaret.Kimberley(at)BlackAgendaReport.com.

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Malik Al-Arkam's Comment:
 Several months ago Dyson proclaimed that "Obama is not Moses, he's Pharoah." Apparently he has done an about-face and now rides on Obama's bandwagon.  There are many ambivalent Afrocentric scholars who simply don't understand that slave descendants have no future in white America's diseased and dying government, regardless of who is at the helm of the New Titanic.  The New Noah's Ark is our rising Afrodescendant Government whose first President is the capable and courageous Ajani Mukarram.
As-Salaam-Alaikum,
Minister Malik Al-Arkam
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Sunday, August 5, 2012

Absence Of Love = Black On Black Crime - Ozodi Osuji

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The Role Of Absence Of Love In Black On Black Crime

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Written by  Ozodi Osuji Ph.D
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This essay points out that black folks tend to serve their individual interests and seldom love and care for other black folks. Young black kids growing up in loveless environments feel abandoned by the black adults that did not serve their social interests. They feel angry at the black folks that abandoned their needs. One way they show their anger at being abandoned by black folks is to commit crimes against black folk hence high black on black crimes.

Black Folks Abandon Their People; Abandonment Contributes To Black On Black CRIMES
Ozodi Osuji

There is an epidemic of black on black crime in North American (inner) cities. No one has really understood why black folks, victims of white racism, kill their fellow victims. One would think that they would direct their anger at those who victimized them, white folks but that is not the case. They direct their rage at their fellow black folks. This reality did not make sense to me and for years I thought about it and gave up.

Finally, I got it! Black Americans merely talk politics, talk about what evils the white man did to them. They gather and talk about all the wrongs that white men have done to them. But while they are so talking they do not want to know how each other is doing. They actually have no desire to help each other.

They merely gather and talk negative talks about white men (I attended one such group for a year and at no time did any of the members call to ask how I am doing; I assume that they also did not call to find out how other members are doing; once in a while I called them to touch base and find out how they are doing).
What is now apparent to me is that these people do not care for their fellow black folk's welfare. Young black children are abandoned by their fathers. Only a few black children are lucky and have black mothers that care for them (those do not gravitate to criminal activities). The majority of black children are emotionally abandoned by black folks, especially by the black men that talk politics.

These children grow up knowing that the adults in their lives do not care for them. They try to figure out a way to make a living (usually in sports, music and government work) and if they fail they easily gravitate to criminal activities.

Their victims are mostly their fellow black folks. They steal from other black folks or kill them, I think because, by and large, they do not have respect for black folk.

And why should they love and respect black folks when they were abandoned by adult black folks. Black folks have serious problems. The core of these problems is that they do not care for each other.
Mostly, what adult black folks do is filling each other's ears with talk on politics and what the white man has done to them. They do not see what they are doing to themselves by ignoring each other.
By not caring for their people, especially the young ones they are making their young folk see them as irrelevant hence justify killing them.

Black Americans do not have community feelings (although they talk too much about the black community); their community is broken. Black Americans, among themselves, incessantly talk about how uncaring white people are but they themselves seem more impersonal and uncaring than white folks. How do I know? If you joined an organization that is made of mostly white folks you would find out that the other members would occasionally call you to check on how you are doing and, in fact, some of them would go out of their way to seek ways to help you in whatever way they could.

Black folks relationship with you begins and ends in venting about what the "man" did to harm them; your personal issues are of no relevance to them.

This way they ignore their young ones issues and those feel uncared for and tune them out as useless folks who merely talk politics but do not do what matters most in people's lives: love and care for people.
One of the lessons I learned when I was in high school was that if I want something done I should do it by myself; I learned that I should not look to a black person to do anything for me for if you wait for a black person to do something for you, well, you would wait until eternity and he would not do it!

And yet these people who do not help each other fancy themselves better than white folks and always talk about the evils done by the white man (white men have their issues alright but I doubt that they are worse than black folks).

Community is characterized by people's loving feelings for one another, by people caring for one another. I do not see love and caring for one another in what is called the black community. I see a place where each person looks after his self-interests and a few succeed and the many fall by the way side and some gravitate to criminal activities.
This tendency to be primarily concerned with one's self interests is obviously rooted in the larger American political economy. America has a capitalist political economy. In this economic system, each person is supposed to be self-interested and go out in the world and compete and get whatever his skills can get for him.
In competition a few win and many lose; that is the nature of the free enterprise system. It is a philosophy of: May the fittest survive and the weak die out.

Evolution is said to be best served if the unfit dies out and only the fit survives and produce the next generation.
The point is that the American political economy has something to do with black Americans self-centered behavior. That been said, in a community folks are supposed to care for each other's survival. No man is an island; no man can by his efforts alone survive; we all receive help from others if we have so-far survived.

Africans in the urban areas are increasingly becoming like black Americans; increasingly, Africans do not care for one another. At the rate they are going, soon, Africans will reach the black American level where people have no community feelings for one another. Africans, too, would start killing one another as in black on black crime.
In Africa the political class practically exists to steal from their national treasuries. Corruption in African countries is so astonishingly high that you wonder if the people are born amoral and criminal. How exactly do they expect to develop their countries with this amazingly high level of corruption? Of course they do not want to develop their countries; they do not give a damn for their people; each person is out for his self-interest and may the devil take of the rest of the people.

And while these folks could care less for their people's welfare they sit around amusing themselves how they are better than their former colonial masters. They blame everything wrong in Africa on the white man. Even when heartless Africans order the massacre of their fellow Africans their pseudo intellectuals attribute the killing to colonial masters (neocolonialism).

If you listened to them you would conclude that Africans are children hence are not responsible for anything going on in Africa; white men who are supposed to be adults are responsible for the wrongs in Africa.
Africans, children, that is, blame Europeans for their poor management of Africa's affairs; they attribute to other persons their inability to get anything done right in Africa.

You, of course, quickly learn to ignore their always blaming other people for their issues, for you understand that they are merely indulging the defense mechanism that makes other folk seem bad so that they may seem good in their self-estimation, even as they do the wrong things. Africans are responsible for whatever has happened in Africa, blaming non-Africans for their fallen house does not obviate this reality.

If Europeans mastered Africans and colonized them, why did Africans remain weak hence made it possible for strong persons to conquer them; didn't anyone tell them that in a competitive world the strong rule the weak?
Each of us is responsible for his fate, period; blaming other persons for one's fate is unrealistic and childish behavior.

In certain parts of Nigeria black on black crime has already approximated black Americans level. In Igbo land abandoned youth, that is, those children who Igbo adults did not care for, are kidnapping their fellow Igbos and holding them hostage until monetary ransom is paid to them. They do what they do because the adults in their lives ignored their needs as children, did not love and care for them.

Igbo society embraced the capitalist philosophy (see Adam Smith, Wealth of Nations) that we live in a dog eat dog world and each person is out to optimize his self-interests and does not care for others welfare.
Igbo kids increasingly grow up with no community caring for them. They develop no feelings of attachment and bonding with other Igbos (and people in general). Consequently, they do not see anything wrong with kidnapping and stealing from the people that abandoned them.

Society has to do with emotional bonding; where that is missing anti-social behavior is engaged in without folks feeling guilty and remorse for such behaviors.

Why should a kid who was not cared for by adults care for the adults that did not care for him? Kidnap them and let their people pay up before they are released or they are shot, who cares.
This is total social breakdown and return to the jungle, to what Thomas Hobbes in his seminal book, Leviathan, called state of nature where each is for himself and take from others and life becomes nasty, brutish and short; folks live in total insecurity.

This is very sad. Something must be done to transform black folks into a community where folks care for one another and love one another.

Clearly, what is missing in black communities, be it in North America or Africa, is love and mutual caring for one another's welfare.

So, how do we inject what is missing into these communities? How do we teach the people to love one another and care for one another instead of ignoring one another's needs and merely talking politics of hatred for the white man?

By the way, if you hate other people you must necessarily hate yourself for what you do to other persons is what you do to yourself; what you give to others is what you receive; giving is receiving; that is why it is better to love others for in doing so one receives love.

How do we generate love in Africans? We must remember that Africans beginning around 700AD sold their people to Arabs and beginning around 1500 AD added selling their people to Europeans (to be used as slaves in America). That is to say that Africans have been behaving without love for over one thousand years. People who sold their people for over a thousand years clearly are not a loving and caring people.
It would, therefore, be naïve to think that one can wish for Africans to be a loving people and they suddenly become a loving people. It would take a lot of doing to make Africans over to a loving people.
Christianity's main tenet is love for God and love for all people. I think that given Christianity's emphasis on love that it can help in teaching Africans to love. Instead of rejecting Christianity Africans ought to embrace it.
Christianity has many denominations. Each person embraces the denomination that suits his temperament but all of them teach love and caring for all mankind.

The sect of Christianity that I embrace teaches that God is love. It teaches that God created us. Since God is love he created us as loving. We are like our father, loving. In our true state we love. Our real selves are loving selves.
According to this doctrine, where there is no love something has gone wrong. Therefore, we have to find out what has gone wrong and remove it so as to return to the awareness of our true self, loving self.
In our true state we are love but we have placed obstacles to the awareness of that love. We must therefore remove the obstacles to the awareness of love and know that we are love. When we remove the blocks to the awareness of love we experience love; when we remove the veil we placed over the face of Christ (love) we see love. (See Helen Schucman, A Course in miracles.)

Love is what glues the many into one. Love is a unifying force. Love is what unifies God and all his creation, children into a shared self and shared mind.

Love unifies; love is union. God is unified state, God is union.

We, the children of God, children of love, separated from eternal state of union (God, love) and now see ourselves as separated from God and from each other.

Originally, we are unified spirit. When we separated from God and from each other we devised matter, space and time and used those to make separation seem real. We now clothe ourselves in matter (body) and seem to live in the world of space and time.

Our bodies give us a feeling of boundaries; each of us feels that he is in his body and begins and ends there and sees other persons as in their bodies. Thus, one believes that one is separated from other persons.
Each individual now sees himself as having different interests from other people. He believes that what serves his interests may not serve other peoples interests. He associates with those he believes serve his interests; those who serve each other's mutual interests.

People believe that they are now different from each other. They do not believe in sameness and equality (in our world empirically people do not seem the same and equal for some seem taller than others; some seem more intelligent than others; some seem wealthier than others; some seem more powerful than others etc.).
Separation is the greatest obstacle to the awareness of union (and since union is love, to the awareness of love). As long as people see themselves as separated from each other, as having different interests etc. they cannot really love one another.

To love one another folks must see themselves as one, as unified, as the same and equal and as having the same interests.

In the reality of the here and now this means overlooking the empirical separation we see in our world and treating people as if they are unified with us.

Clearly, you seem separated from me. I am here and you are over there; there is space and time between us. I see this separation between us but must now overlook it. That is, while seeing you as not me I must treat you as part of me. I must treat you as I treat myself.

How do I treat me? If I am sane I treat me with love (there are insane masochists who do not love themselves, who inflict pain on their selves). Treating you as I treat myself means that I love you. This way I love me and love you.
I love every human being for I recognize that they are all parts of my one shared and complete self, my unified self.
Love closes the gap we see between us; love closes the space between the seeming separated children of God. (I say seeming for in reality we remain as God created us, unified; there is no force that can undo what God created; God created us unified with him and with each other but we can dream that we are separated from him and from each other and make the dream seem real in our awareness but in reality we remain unified). Love unifies people into one people.

All these seem abstract but they are really simple. I see you as separated from me (that is an illusion but this world is an illusion so let us accept the illusion of separation and transform it into a happy illusion). I see you as over there. Okay. I decide to love you as I love me; I decide to care for you as I care for me.

One cannot give to others what one does not give one's self...that is, you cannot love other people if you do not love you, if you hate you by logical necessity you must hate other people.

When a person loves himself, loves other people, cares for himself and cares for other people he has metaphorically closed the gap that separates him from other people; he has returned to the awareness of union; he has overlooked separation, the world of space, time and matter and behaved as if he is one with all people; he has behaved as we are in spirit, one.

Love you and love other people, care for you and care for other people and you know oneness. What this means in the here and now world is that you pursue doing what interests you, what you have aptitude in and what you are trained in doing. You do it to the best of your ability. However, now you do it with a feeling that you are serving all humanity through your work. Your work benefits all people.

If you are a medical doctor you heal people's physical illnesses. If you are a psychologist you understand and help people to heal their separated minds by returning them to unified mind via love and forgiveness. Whatever you enjoy doing you do it but do it with an eye to serving all people through it.

When you see a person on the street you recognize that you and that person share one unified spirit self and you love that person; you do whatever serves your and other peoples common interests.

This is particularly necessary in dealing with children under the age of twenty. You must always figure out a way to be of use and service to young people. You must be involved with the youth in your community. You must serve the youth of your world; you must not detach from them and abandon them. You must love and care for them (sometimes this involves merely paying attention to them and at other times it involves giving your time and money to them).

In doing this, I believe that black folks would rehabilitate their shattered community. Their community has been shattered since they began selling their people into slavery in the 700s AD (if not before that time).
If they do not do these things I believe that the black world is truly a defeated world. Arabs, white folks etc. have defeated Africans (in Africa and elsewhere). The black world is shattered to pieces.
Those fragments need to be picked up and rebuilt into a community. Love is what builds a community, for love glues people together as one people.

Love would glue together the shattered pieces called the black community. Without return to love the black community would remain a shattered community, a defeated community.
Talking about what white folks did to black folks, preaching hatred for white folks would not heal the black community.

Talking about hatred, what did Jesus say about it? Jesus Christ asked his followers to forgive those who wronged them. Therefore, Black Christians must forgive those who enslaved and discriminated against them. Black folks in Africa and America must forgive white folks for their past injustices to black folks.
Forgiving the past does not mean tolerating present injustice. Having forgiven past slavery and discrimination we must work for justice for all today.

No one has the right to enslave or discriminate against any one today. Anyone who discriminates against people ought to be tried by a court of law and sent to jail and while there taught love for all people. The point is that forgiving the past does not mean tolerating racism today.

We must love all and forgive all and correct all behavior that does not love. It is in doing this that we glue together God's shattered children, especially black folks.

I believe that black on black crime can be reduced if black folks are taught love for one another and are helped to learn how to care for one another.

Children who feel loved by their parents and significant others in general tend to love people in their world. On the other hand, children who feel not loved by their parents tend to hate people in their world and do what harms them.
Love, I believe is the answer to most of our human problems. But instead of seeking ways to love and care for one another we talk the politics of hatred for other people, and fill our minds with hatred and that hatred kills us (many black folks die young).

We forget to love our people; we especially forget to love our young ones and they grow up feeling abandoned and angry at our people and show their hatred by their criminal activities towards our people.
It is now time to return to love and caring for all the people in our community and working for our mutual social interests (see Alfred Adler, What Life should mean to you).

CONCLUSION
This essay points out that black folks tend to serve their individual interests and seldom care for other black folks interests. It says that black folk seldom love other people. Young black kids growing up in loveless environments feel abandoned by the black adults that did not serve their social interests. They feel angry at the black folks that abandoned their needs. One way they show their anger at being abandoned by black folks is to commit crimes against black folk hence high black on black crimes.

Of course there are other factors contributing to high black on black crimes, such as poverty, broken marriages, broken families, broken homes, absent fathers, racism, unemployment etc. but this essay chose to focus on the absence of love as a contributory factor in black on black crimes. It leaves it to academic folk to write about the "complex factors' underpinning human behaviors and simply focus on the "simple factor" of love affecting human behavior (human beings minimize the most important factor in their lives, love and talk nonsense about politics).
If this paper is deemed reductionistic in attributing black on black crime to lack of love, so be it. Others talk about biological and or social factors as the cause of human behavior. Those, too, are reductionism at work. They do not have complete evidence demonstrating the causal reality of genes and social factors in human behavior.
In this essay, one chose what factor one wants to employ in explaining human behavior, love. Of course one recognizes the role of biological and social factors in the genesis of human behavior.

Ozodi Osuji
August 2, 2012
Dr. Osuji can also be reached at (213)807-5944

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Ozodi Osuji Ph.D

Ozodi Thomas Osuji is from Imo State, Nigeria. He obtained his PhD from UCLA. He taught at a couple of Universities and decided to go back to school and study psychology. Thereafter, he worked in the mental health field and was the Executive Director of two mental health agencies. He subsequently left the mental health environment with the goal of being less influenced by others perspectives, so as to be able to think for himself and synthesize Western, Asian and African perspectives on phenomena. Dr Osuji's goal is to provide us with a unique perspective, one that is not strictly Western or African but a synthesis of both. Dr Osuji teaches, writes and consults on leadership, management, politics, psychology and religions. Dr Osuji is married and has three children; he lives at Seattle, Washington, USA.

He can be reached at: Ozodi@africainstituteseattle.org ; ozodiosuji@yahoo.ca  (206) 853-4245

Saturday, August 4, 2012

Gabby’s Dad? He’s Right Where He’s Supposed to Be

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Where's Gabby's Dad? He's Right Where He's Supposed to Be

by Dr. Boyce Watkins, BlackLikeMoi.com
Gabby Douglas' mother, Natalie Hawkins, has been every bit as inspirational as her daughter. Candidly describing the challenges of being a single mom, Natalie talked about all the sacrifices she's made in order to see her daughter succeed.

But often in these conversations, one voice that gets muted is that of the dad.  Some people seem to think that black babies are delivered to their mother's by storks, or they automatically assume that the father doesn't care about his kids because he never had the chance to live with them.

In the case of Gabby Douglas, you can throw those stereotypes out the window.  Gabby's dad, Air Force Staff Sergeant Timothy Douglas, was front and center to see his daughter perform recently and only missed some of the performances because he was off serving his country in Afghanistan.

While across the world, Mr. Douglas would dig up YouTube videos in order to see his daughter in action.  He recently flew to California with his friends just in time to catch Gabby at the Olympic Trials. He arrived with a large American flag with the words, "Go Gabby Douglas, Love, Dad."

Gabby described her reaction to USA Today.
"I'm like, 'Who's calling my name?' And then I look up. It was my dad and his friend, and I haven't seen him in a while," Gabby said. "They were holding up the flag. And I almost felt like bawling. I was like, 'Oh, my gosh, Dad!' "

Mr. Douglas talks about how excited he was when he saw his daughter make the Olympic team.
"There's an exuberance. There's a feeling that you can't describe," hesaid. "Sometimes, when she had a rough time, I'd tell her to hang in there. 'You know what it takes to be a winner, you know what your goals are. You just keep on your goals.' Some things that I tell her I have to remind myself. Those are all things we can all abide by."

Gabby talked about how there were times when she worried about her father being in a warzone.  She would try to email and Skype him when she could.  He hasn't been able to be in her presence since late 2010, but he's glad to be with her now.  Gabby's dad also has fond memories of when she first started to compete in gymnastics.

"We knew (gymnastics) was in her heart because one day she came home from the gym and she had a 102-degree temperature," her father said. "She went to bed, slept it off and woke up and got back in the gym the next day. That's when we knew she had a winner's attitude, a winner's spirit."

The Gabby Douglas story, like millions of other stories of triumph in our community, came to fruition because some man, some where, gave some child the gift of life.  While we love to grab onto an endless supply of stereotypes teaching us that black men are worthless and don't love their children, there are quite a few fathers like this one who understand that a real man always takes care of his children.

Defacing these stereotypes is part of the reason I took part in the Janks Morton film "Hoodwinked," featuring myself, along with Drs. Marc Lamont Hill, Steve Perry, Jawanza Kunjufu and Ivory Toldson.  The same way that NBC "conveniently" missed the story about Gabby's dad (as they aired an ad with a monkey doing gymnastics right after Gabby's win), we as a country miss the stories of countless black men who sacrifice like hell for their children.  These stories must be told as well.

Dr. Boyce Watkins is a professor at Syracuse University and founder of the Your Black World Coalition. To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your email, please click here.

Afro-Dominicana: The Other Dominican Republic - AfroPop WorldWide

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Afro-Dominicana: The Other Dominican Republic

Domincan
We bring some much needed-attention to Afro-Dominican music, some of the richest and least-known sounds coming from the Caribbean. The Dominican Republic is best known for merengue and bachata, two essential parts of the mainstream Latin music landscape. Both styles have heavy African influences, but aren't considered "Afro-Dominican" music – that term is reserved for the 60 some-odd traditional rhythms found on the island, deeply-African sounds that make the complex grooves of salsa or merengue look like beginner's stuff. There is an astounding musical diversity. Whole music traditions can change from one town to the next, each with its own choir of unique instruments.
Although there are secular styles as well, most Afro-Dominican music is deeply integrated with Afro-Dominican religion, syncretic practices that fuse the Catholic saints to African deities, much like Cuban santeria or Haitian vodou. From energetic Saint's Day parties to private ceremonies to mass pilgrimages, Afro-syncretic spiritual activities play a major part in the lives of many Dominicans, and music is always there at the center, providing an ecstatic, transcendent, communal way of interacting with the divine.
Afro Dominican music is a well-kept secret thanks to a long and complicated relationship between Dominicans and their strong African heritage, further nuanced by the 31-year dictatorship of Rafael Trujillo, who actively persecuted the country's African cultural manifestations in an obsessive quest to Europeanize the country. Even though Afro-Dominican music is played every day, it is rarely discussed in public – it's almost a taboo.


Nevertheless, the traditions are strong – this is living, breathing folklore. Whereas in some countries, traditional music is dead except for nostalgic recreations by folkloric ensembles, this music is thriving with virtually no support of any kind.
Below, you'll find a brief guide to Afro-Dominican music styles – by no means a complete list. Take a second to follow the links and see the traditions being practiced for yourself. Also, don't forget to scroll to the bottom for links and information on the Afro-Dominican fusion artists featured on our radio program.

Salve
Palos and salve are the most common styles of Afro-Dominican music. In fact, some ethnomusicologists say that palos should be the true Dominican national music, rather than merengue, since it's found in some form virtually everywhere on the island. Palos, which means "sticks", gets it's name from the trio of tall, skinny drums it is played on. The drummers are accompanied by the omnipresent Dominican guira or metal scraper, and singers who venerate the Catholic saints and their sycretized African counterparts with call-and-response style melodies and improvised verses.
The music is an essential part of Afro-Dominican spiritual life. Popular religious celebrations are often referred to as fiesta de palo, or palos party, after the dominant role of the drum. Ceremonies usually occur on the Saint's Days of the Catholic devotional calendar. For example, October 20th is Santa Marta's day, so her devotees might arrange an party in her honor. In towns or neighborhoods where she is the patron saint, there will likely be a novena, in which festivities occur for nine straight nights, culminating in a all-night party on the actual Saint's Day. In either case, an altar will be made and palos drummers will play, often for hours and hours on end. As the music intensifies, worshipers may undergo possession, in which the deity descends to the Earth to give advice, relay messages from deceased relatives, or sometimes just to have fun. Once the possession stops, the person often has little or no recollection of what just happened.
Image from LAMECA archive
 
These may be religious events, but they aren't staid affairs in any sense – people drink, dance, sing, and have a good time, and its all about bringing the community together. While most palo songs are about the virtues and exploits of the saints and gods, many are just festive songs with secular topics.

Salve is a related genre that is played in a lot of the same contexts, but with different instruments and rhythms. The name comes from the Salve Regina, a catholic psalm, and many still sing a sacred, acapella salve that preserves the medieval modes of old Spanish hymns. The ecstatic salve played at religious parties however, is all about percussion – featuring large numbers of tambourines playing interlocking rhythms and a melodic drum called the balsie, whose player alters the pitch by applying pressure with his foot.
image from LAMECA archive
Salve may be played in fewer parts of the country but it's one of the best-known sounds, largely because it's the sound of choice in Villa Mella, a poor suburb of the capital often thought of as the epicenter of Afro-Dominican traditions. The salve group of Enerolisa Nuñez, from Villa Mella, is one of the most widely listened to – thanks to her inclusion in merengue-star Kinito Mendez's salve-merengue fusion album A Palo Limpio as well as an excellent recording of her group by the Bayahonda Cultural Foundation.
 
Congos 
Congos is a unique musical phenomenon that has intrigued anthropologists both at home and abroad for decades. It's played by a group called the Cofradia de Los Congos del Espiritu Santo de Villa Mella, a religious brotherhood based in Villa Mella and the guardians of a musical tradition that dates back several centuries. The cofradia is thought to be directly descended from the religious-fraternal organizations of enslaved Africans during the Colonial Period. Africans from similar cultural regions on the continent often bonded together in these societies, and the music of the Congos is thought to be rooted in styles from Central Africa.
The group is organized into a hierarchy, with a king, a captain and other titles, and membership is passed down the generations. Their responsibility is to maintain and pass on a cannon of 21 songs, played on a unique set of self-made shakers, claves and drums. The music is most often played for the funeral rites of Cofradia members, helping the passage of their souls to the next world. After death, congos music is played for a nine-night novena, and the ceremony is repeated a year later and then again two years after that. The ritual displays a strong linkage to African ways of dealing with life and death.
The congos were recognized by UNESCO in 2001, raising the group's national profile in a country hesitant to support Afro-Dominican culture. When long-standing Congos leader Captain Sixto Minier passed away in 2008, there was an impressive outpouring of affection. Still, the government has been criticized for not doing enough to support the group, and the congos continue to struggle in the difficult material conditions they've faced for centuries.

Gagá
One of the most popular sounds for Afro-Dominican revivalists, gagá is the music of the bateyes, the sugar-cane cutting camps where Haitians and Dominicans live and work side-by-side. Gagá is rooted in Haitian rara, a kind of street music played in parades during the Lenten season. It's music for the forest spirits – for the renewal and rebirth found in nature, echoing Christian Easter themes of resurrection. The breakneck-paced music is played on drums and percussion, but also with a series of one-note homemade trumpets made out of wood and metal. The trumpets interlock to create haunting melodies in an effect known called hocketting.
Haitians suffer heavy discrimination in the Dominican Republic, thanks to a long history of anti-Haitian indoctrination from Dominican elites. Many Haitians illegally reside in the much more prosperous D.R. and are frequent victims of abuse by employers and police. Haiti is a major factor in the racial complexities of Dominican society. After rebelling against the French and declaring independence in 1804, Haiti conquered the Spanish half of the island. Dominicans won their independence from Haiti, not Spain, and have long constructed their identities in opposition to an African, Haitian "other." 
 
Picture by Justin Mercer
Despite widely held prejudices, the two countries have a lot in common and have traded culture back and forth across the years. For example, Haitian pop music style compa was inspired by golden-age Dominican merengue, and the Creole names for Afro-Dominican deities betrays roots in Haitian spiritual practices.
Gagá, while having undeniable Haitian roots, has steadily developed its own sound in the Dominican Republic, becoming a part of the Dominican cultural landscape. It's performed primarily during Semana Santa.

Guloya
For most of its history, sugar cultivation was the bedrock of the Dominican economy. In the late 18th century, migrants from English-speaking Caribbean islands came to the Dominican Republic to fill a demand for labor in the cane fields, settling in southeastern city of San Pedro de Macoris. The Dominicans called them the cocolos, thought to be a mispronunciation of "Tortuga", a nearby island from which many of the migrants originated. The cocolos brought with them the mores of the Anglo-Caribbean. Their talent for cricket was easily adapted to baseball, leading San Pedro to be nicknamed "the city of shortstops" for the incredible numbers of Major-leaguers to emerge from the city.
The cocolos also brought their music traditions, referred to commonly as guloya. It's an Afro-Caribbean adaptation of English Christmas pageants. The momises, as these mummers as called, retell biblical stories such as the battle between David and Goliath, mock-fighting in fabulously-colored costumes. The music is a take on English fife-and-drum music, played on triangle, snare drum, and homemade flutes. It takes on a rollicking, almost New-Orleans style feel in the hands of the cocolos.
 
 
Mumming-influenced traditions can be found across the Caribbean in places where the English left their mark. A popular masquerade, known as John Canoe, is practiced in the Bahamas, Jamaica, and even by the Garifuna people in Central America. In the Dominican Republic, guloya continues to be performed every Christmas season, though as the older generations die off, there is a danger of the tradition gradually eroding. Younger generations are more culturally Dominican, speaking Spanish as a first language instead of English.

Sarandunga
The diversity of living folkloric music traditions in the Dominican Republic is staggering, and one perfect example is the sarandunga. The sarandunga is played exclusively in Baní, a small city in the country's South, a region with a particularly strong Afro-Dominican presence. What's more, the sarandunga is played only on one event of the year, the festival of San Juan Bautista, or John the Baptist. The tradition is maintained by a local cofradia, not unlike that of the congos, and continues to be maintained without help from folklorists or anyone else. Sarandunga is played on its own set of 3 small drums, and contains three movements, the morana, the jacana, and the bomba, each with a distinct rhythm, melody, and lyrics.
La Comarca
Olivorio Mateo, better known as Liborio, was a messianic figure and leader of the Liborista religious movement that arose in the early 20th century. He performed miraculous healings, drawing a large following in the remote Cordillera Central, where many communities descend from cimarrones, slaves who escaped from the sugar plantations and found freedom in the mountains. In the 1920s, American occupying forces hunted down and killed Liborio, deeming his movement a threat. Today, he is a sort of folk hero. The music he used for healings, the comarca, lives on in the deep interior of the country. Played on accordion, it bears resemblance to the many folk dance genres found in the country, but also has a religious/magical connotation.

Bambula
The bambula is yet another Afro-Dominican style with fascinating historical roots. It comes from the beautiful Samana peninsula on the island's North-East, famous for migratory whale populations and off-the-beaten track beach towns. Samana is home to a group known locally as los Americanos. They are descendents of black American Garveyites, who followed the pan-Africanist teachings of Jamiacan-born activist Marcus Garvey. Garvey raised money to build a fleet – the Black Star Line – with the purpose of eventually re-patriating African-Americans to the African continent.
The group in Samana arrived in the 1800s to become a part of the new Haiti, the world's first post-colonial black-led nation and at one time the rulers of the entire island. Their music, the bambula, has roots in French-Caribbean music, but is also traced back to early African-American music coming out of New Orleans. Today, the bambula is infrequently played, though there is an initiative in development—the Bayahonda Cultural Foundation— to help rescue the tradition and encourage sustainable cultural-tourism in the Samana peninsula.

Afro-Dominican Fusion Music
Over the years, many alternative artists have drawn on Afro-Dominican music in their work, finding inspiration and power in the same African heritage so vehemently opposed by mainstream Dominican society. The first such group of note was Convite, formed in 1974 by young intellectuals at the Autonomous University of Santo Domingo who went out into the countryside to learn about this music, bring it back and fuse it with acoustic instruments and rock and roll aesthetics. Convite eventually broke up, but its members went on to be foundational figures in folklore studies and anthropology in the country.
Today, there is a new movement stirring, a new generation of Dominicans partially removed from racial attitudes of their parents. While it is still a fringe subculture, more and more Dominicans are embracing African roots and a crop of young bands are mixing Afro-Dominican folklore with reggae, rock and jazz, among other styles.
Below are some links to some of the fusion musicians featured in our program:
La Guardia Vieja Those who led the way.
The New Generation – New sounds, new voices.


Thursday, August 2, 2012

When a win-win isn't a win - Michael French

When a Win-Win isn't a Win - Michael French

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I attend a lot of motivational / inspirational / educational events. I know that I'm a better person in many aspects because of attending those events. As a counselor I frequently guide my clients into the 'Trinity of Change' (my term) which I learned from Alcoholics Anonymous meetings..... 'People, places, and things'. In those AA classes we were taught that change and relapse-prevention can occur by "Changing the people you hang with, changing the places you hang at, and changing the things you do." I often use this Trinity while guiding my students and clients working as a school and family counselor. While sounding simplistic, I attribute a great deal of my success as a counselor in my use of the Trinity. I also believe that a lot of the changes I have personally experienced has resulted from my use of the paradigm. I've also witnessed family and friends embrace Healthy living, Islam, Christianity, Consciousness, Education, and other paths which have led to the changing of the people they hang with, places they go, and the things they do. While it's easy to see how the Trinity can lead to positive change, I've also seen the change occur in a negative direction as the same occurs with all types of addiction. I'm also reminded of three of my former students who began working as dancers in so-called 'Gentlemen Clubs' for a little money and whose lives have gone downhill as a result of the people, places, and things that accompany strip clubs. Interestingly enough I never acted like a Gentleman when I visited those clubs, neither did the others patrons........



In World Financial Group events I often hear that your business will increase as you improve the amount or quality of the books you read, the people with whom you associate with, and the events you attend. At a recent event I was blessed enough to learn from a giant in our industry - Michael French. Mr. French taught on the value of competition during this session. As he led the packed audience into appreciating how competition drives us towards excellence I ended getting lost on one of his points. Mr. French stated, possibly a light note, that "Competition creates a win-win-win-win situation. You gotta' know when a win-win isn't a win." He continued guiding how by helping to strengthen our clients we also help to strengthen our product providers, our mother-company W.F.G., and finally ourselves as W.F.G. "agents of change." Mr. French continued to teach on the benefits of entering the competition and different ways to compete as I remained on the edge of my seat struggling to note the plethora of intellectual-goodies he shared while also pondering the weight of "You gotta' know when a win-win isn't a win."


As I returned home and reviewed my notes I began remembering the countless speeches my Father gave to me as I was a youth. Dad left for ancestral Glory on 09/21/2009 and only recently have the valued memories of my father become uplifting rather than depressing. I'm now finding that my loss, the death of my Father, is his gain, as he resides with the best. 2009 was a hard year as my beloved Mother-In-Law died, followed two months later by my Father's death, followed a few days later by a life-threatening experience faced by my Mother. 2009 was a challenge. One of the most memorable statements of my Father was his guidance that everything I do MUST (his emphasis) Glorify God, be pleasing to our Ancestors, improve our Family, and lead me towards my goals. Every action MUST result in a 4 fold benefit and held me accountable in a 4 fold manner. I smiled noting how his guidance was mirrored by Mr. French's guidance to ensure our actions resulted in a Win-Win-Win-Win scenario. I recently shared this concept with a client as I guided her into understanding the various options she had to invest in her future by saving her funds in a portfolio of products. One of which locked in gains and eliminated losses. Investing in her future will (1) improve her current financial standing, (2) improve her future financial standing, (3) improve her family's future financial standing, and provide her with a means to continue supporting her church and other charitable interests she has from this point on. "It will be a Win-Win-Win-Win for you." I stated as I ended wrapping up her options. She agreed.............. Thanks Mr. French, Thanks Dad.


What do you think of Mr. French's message. What do you think about my Father's (Farther) message ? I'd love to know. Leave a comment for me below !
http://funfamilyfreedom.blogspot.com/2012/08/when-win-win-isnt-win-michael-french.html


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Let's be improved ! Seko Varner is the lead agent for Positive Vibes Financial, a World Financial Group team of financial services agents. This team is coached by WFG's Team Unstoppable. Seko also has ownership in and works with Positive Vibes DJs and the event marketing service Happily Ever After.Be. Seko has a background in counseling and special education. He was employed for 14 years with Portsmouth City Public Schools (Virginia) as a counselor and as a teacher. Seko has also worked as an Intensive In-Home Counselor for over 10 years. In addition to his business ventures Seko is active with numerous Youth Mentor programs and has a background in radio and television media. Visit html://www.HappilyEverAfter.Be for more details.